I had a conversation with someone yesterday about the "choice" to adopt this doll when our other children were old, and 2 were out on their own. They were questioning the whys and saying that choice would not have been for them... Something most people wouldn't do. The other 4 are in their 20's and we have a son the same age as our grandkids. I'll never forget the phone call, the trip Jess and I took to meet him...Look at that face - would I change a thing? Not for all the bibbities in the world. He really wasn't a choice, he is a blessing that we don't deserve but thank God for every day. Never a doubt that he was intended for our family from the moment we met. My only wish is for time to slow down! Love you, little man!